VIVE LA LOVE!
Are you ready to take charge of your relationship and deepen your love?
Do you feel frustrated because you know you are so much better than this?
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Discover how to stop fighting, get closer, and turn negatives into positives with easy to learn strategies, taught by a qualified expert.
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Many us were fed the 'Great Romantic Myth' that all you have to do in life is meet 'that special person', fall in love and then you’ll live happily ever after.
Well the road to the divorce court is paved with good couples who did this and it failed them.
They didn't fail because their love wasn't strong enough, but because love is a feeling, not a communication tool!
“Love is a powerful force, but love is the reason you fix things,
not how you fix things.”
Page 3, The Relationship First Aid Kit, by Timothy O'Leary
It's only with the right communication tools and relationship strategies that we can fix relationship problems, all of which naturally builds love and romance. Love is the most powerful force in the universe but you have to direct that energy into using the right communication tools and strategies in order for your relationship to thrive.
not how you fix things.”
Page 3, The Relationship First Aid Kit, by Timothy O'Leary
It's only with the right communication tools and relationship strategies that we can fix relationship problems, all of which naturally builds love and romance. Love is the most powerful force in the universe but you have to direct that energy into using the right communication tools and strategies in order for your relationship to thrive.
Just remember - Happy Couples are no better than you, they just use better tools.
By my nature I am a very romantic person but when you have a financial problem, a dozen red roses is not going to sort out your debts!
By my nature I am a very romantic person but when you have a financial problem, a dozen red roses is not going to sort out your debts!
So what do couples fight about?
Firstly, many couples fight about the Big Four: Money, Housework, Parenting, Sex.
This fighting causes so much stress and damage that leads them to the fifth problem: us! Constant fighting or 'the silent treatment' is so stressful. You can't stop thinking about it and all you want is for everything to be ok.
Partners often try to ‘make an effort’ by speaking more kindly to each other, biting their tongue, buying flowers, going out for dinner, making love; as sweet as these things are, none of them solve the underlying problems.
So while it's a relief to not be arguing, the couple is just one trigger away from a blow up.
It is so stressful and life is stressful enough already! It is draining and exhausting when your precious energy could be put into getting the most out of life.
“If you know you are loved, you live differently.”
Amy Grant, American singer songwriter
Let me show you how to build the foundations for your Love and the strategies required to deepen you love and connection.
The biggest mistake couples make is to overlook the importance of Pillar One.
In 9 times out of 10, when a couple comes to see me, it's because they are not on the same page and are divided by their stress.
Using the right tools makes solving problems so much easier.
You literally never have to fight again!
Imagine celebrating together as you hit your financial goals!
How good do you think that feels?
It's all possible, because you are being the better version of yourselves, united together and working a financial plan. The confidence that comes from knowing that you are united in your relationship gives you a deep sense of peace and harmony.
The Romance Revolution is your 4-step program to use the right tools to solve your problems.
The Romance Revolution is your 4-step program to use the right tools to solve your problems.
Imagine if you:
You could bring up any issue or topic knowing it wouldn’t end in a fight
You could get on the same page in your finances and parenting and know that you have each other’s backs
You could really be there for each other through the hard times, feeling stronger together
You are using the communication tools that not only enrich your relationship, but are simultaneously role-modelling to your children how to have healthy respectful relationships. This also means your children are not repeating your fighting-language back to you, making parenting so much easier!
“Good sex thrives on TLC: trust, love and connection.” Page 139, The Relationship First Aid Kit
Invest in The Romance Revolution!I’m Timothy O’Leary, author of The Relationship First Aid Kit. I have a Masters in Couples and Relationships Counselling and have a passion for helping couples to build a solid foundation for their love and to use Emotional-Problem Solving Skills, which most couples have never been taught, but are somehow expected to know – go figure!
You could get on the same page in your finances and parenting and know that you have each other’s backs
You could really be there for each other through the hard times, feeling stronger together
You are using the communication tools that not only enrich your relationship, but are simultaneously role-modelling to your children how to have healthy respectful relationships. This also means your children are not repeating your fighting-language back to you, making parenting so much easier!
“Good sex thrives on TLC: trust, love and connection.” Page 139, The Relationship First Aid Kit
Invest in The Romance Revolution!I’m Timothy O’Leary, author of The Relationship First Aid Kit. I have a Masters in Couples and Relationships Counselling and have a passion for helping couples to build a solid foundation for their love and to use Emotional-Problem Solving Skills, which most couples have never been taught, but are somehow expected to know – go figure!
People often asked me about how I continued to work with couples, when I was going through my divorce, but it actually gave me comfort to help others, just as it gives me a buzz to help you now too.
But I only did it part-time and worked as a labourer with my brother who is a carpenter. It felt good to be ‘on the tools’, hanging out with my brother and gave me space to reflect on life, love and relationships. It also grounded me and as I met people in the trades, learnt about their lives, meeting men who had been through divorce and those who were starting families. The common thread was most men were never given the communication tools that they needed and they just wanted love and harmony, not stress. Deep down, I also knew that something positive would come out of this painful chapter of my life and it has: no-one else in the couples field talks about 'Emotional Problem Solving' and yet it’s what every couple needs. When I ask men if they know how to help their partner with her strong emotions, they all say, ‘No, not really.’ Because no-one teaches men this essential life-skill, as shown in the images below. As a couples therapist I had seen some bitter divorces. So when you see the strategies for emotional problem solving and compassionate listening, know that I used them right through the divorce and we settled our affairs, without lawyers and by working together. When you learn about splitting in my course, know that I worked hard to actively avoid that negative trap. I have always been a very spiritual person and I believe that in life you are sometimes called to follow a path and to make a contribution. Call it intuition but my gut told me not to run the café – Loving coffee and people are not the same as having great cafe-business skills! I love the online program and I'm sure you will too! |
About the Author
My name is Timothy O'Leary, I am the author of The Relationship First Aid Kit. I am a Therapist and Educator in private practice. I have a Masters in Couples and Relationships Counselling and have worked with couples for almost twenty years now. So when my marriage ended after 17 years, I was devastated. I was faced with a choice; I could learn from this experience or go run a café and turn my back on my chosen field! I seriously did look into buying a café because I love coffee and I love people. But I knew in my heart that I needed to fully understand what had happened and find peace in my heart. I am a very romantic person and I fell for the oldest one in the book: I used romance as the tool to fix things, not realising that I was actually sweeping a lot of our everyday problems under the carpet. In hindsight it's always so easy to see and I was too focused on my work with couples and not focusing enough on the three pillars in my own relationship. |
All couples need a strategy for emotional problem-solving
I will show you quick and easy ways to stop fighting and starting understanding each other - emotional problems, shown left below, bring stress, but emotional problem-solving brings a deeper understanding of each other. To really 'be-there' for each other is one of the most loving things you can do for your partner, but you have to have the right tools!
All I need from you is a willingness to have an open mind to rethink your beliefs about relationships.
Instead of hoping that love will fix things, let me show you how to really solve your problems and see your love grow.
With the right strategies in place, you can build strong foundations for your relationship, strengthening your Love and Romance.
You just have to be ready!
Instead of hoping that love will fix things, let me show you how to really solve your problems and see your love grow.
With the right strategies in place, you can build strong foundations for your relationship, strengthening your Love and Romance.
You just have to be ready!
Here’s what you will get with The Romance Revolution:
The program shows you how to build your love in just 4-steps, with 15 videos and 31 handouts, Step 1. Your Romance Revolution Video 1. 0 Your mindset matters Video 1.1 Your Relationship In A Different Light Handout 1.0 The CPR tool for Solving Difficult Moments Handout 1.1 Fight, Flight or Fix, Reflection Sheet Video 1.2 Getting the most out of the CPR strategy Handout 1.3 Using 'Emotional Problem Solving' Handout 1.4 Turning negatives into positives with the CPR tool Video 1.3 The enemy of love - 'splitting' Video 1.4 Protecting your love by correcting your 'splitting' Handout 1.5 Undoing Splitting Exercise Step 2. Building the first Pillar of Love – Unity Video 2.0 Pillar One - Foundations of Love Video 2.1 Unity in the face of stress Handout 2.1 Using the Field of Negotiation Video 2.2 Managing the work life balance Handout 2.2 Finding balance with The Work-Life Tree Handout 2.3 Uniting Against Stress Handout 2.4 Stress Management Strategies Video 2.3 Shifting Stress Handout 2.5 Colour Field of Negotiation Step 3. Building Pillar Two - Transformation Video 3.0 Making your relationship a vehicle for positivity Video 3.1 Transformation Handout 3.0 a INSTRUCTIONS for Supporting The Better Version of You Handout 3.0 b Print this form: Self-worth, Values & Inspiration Handout 3.0 c Values & Goals Sheet Handout 3.1 Using the Compassionate Listening Tool Handout 3.2 Vision To Reality Reflection Tool Handout 3.3 Being the better version of you Handout 3.4 Effectiveness & Success Handout 3.5 The Role Of Strong Emotions Handout 3.6 Deactivate Your Buttons Handout 3.7 Recruiting your partner strategy Handout 3.8 Expressing Your Feelings Handout 3.9 Reconnection strategy Step 4. Building Pillar Three – Happiness Handout 4.0 Sharing Your Love exercise Video 4.0 Deepening Your Love Video 4.1 Love In Action Handout 4.1 Boosting Your Happiness Handout 4.2 Material & Spiritual Success 5. Taking Your Next Steps -Viva La Love! Video 5.0 The Better Version of You As A Couple Handout 5.0 Inspiring Your Relationship Goals Video 5.1 Generating positivity Handout 5.1 The World's Best You! Handout 5.2 Teach Your Kids Communication Skills Handout 5.3 How The Three Pillars Supports Your Love Handout 5.4 The Three Pillars Image Video 5.2 Ensuring your ongoing success Handout 5.5 Being the better version of you Each module has videos and handouts that support your learning and to adopt a positive mindset and use great communication tools. As you practice the strategies you'll find that you refine your use of the tools and become more confident and get improved results. With the benefit of 24/7 access, you review the program material at any time, to deepen your learning. |
Kind Words
“Dear Tim, Thank you for seeing H and myself. What a profound experience we had with you. Thank you for your generous amount of time too. We never thought we’d have a session like that, and it has already really helped us, plus given us heaps to think about and work on. Thank you again. “ Kind Words
“Just wanted to say I thoroughly enjoyed your book. I actually feel it has changed my life. With the right amount of sensitivity and humour, it has taught me more than I ever expected about both myself and my interactions with my partner.” I’m so confident that The Romance Revolution will transform the way you think about your relationship that I’m offering a 7 - day money back guarantee! This means you can trial the whole program, and gain access to the all the resources - RISK FREE!
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